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I just came back from a 3D2N course, anyway the contents are supposed to be confidential, one need to be mentally strong in order to keep it going, the humiliation, the tears, the shouting, the begging etc. I must say it did kind of made me stop and think,

– Have we ever think from the shoes of others,

– Have we ever appreciate the efforts our parents put in to keep this family running,

– Have we ever say thank and be grateful for what our significant other had done for us?

People from all walks of life attended this course, from successful ple, to those who are still lost and can’t find their direction, to ex convicts to those who have problems but never really get to let it go etc.

But at the end of the day, I still strongly believe that, if you really have a problem buried deep in your heart and is hurting you so much, is still advisable to consult a shrunk and learn to let it go. I see so many people crying especially when they are asked to talk about their past experiences, I guess they never learn to let it go.

Some might say that I am heartless or emotionless for not dropping a single drop, I reckon that whateva happened in the past, I don’t see it as a problem or that it leave a scar in me, I take it more of a learning experience to constantly remind myself that the same mistake WILL NOT be commit twice, and that one do not need to bear a grudge forever against those who hurt you, take it that they are polishing you to face more challenges and that you become stronger after their “treatment”. At the end of the day, is their loss for  hurting you, for losing a such a great friend/confidante/ partner/colleague in you and that eventually one fine day, the precious gem will be picked up by another who cherish you.

So ya, to those who gave up on love, if you despised yourself, you will only attract useless bums. Be strong, keep on going, be confident, be successful and soon, you will find yourself with people of positive vibes.

On a side note, I caught Confessions of a shopaholic, kind of disappointing, overextends it credibility, was expecting more than that, but ya… disappointing I must said.

Just let it glow, till it overflows

Life treating her good, live each day in peace, no more of the daily drama mama, the tears sobbing soap operas, the quarrels, the stress from the external and totally unrelated people meddling in her life.

And when she looked back, she realised she missed out on alot in the past, spending too much time harping on the impossible, trying to make it possible which in the end caused her much hurt. But ain’t she glad that IS FINALLY OVER!!!!

On a side note, DUN WATCH WATCHMEN!!!! Too much unnecessary plots, draggy and with the lousy seats at GV Bishan caused me much agony through out the 166mins.

Yawn Ar!!!

Is back to work proper tml. Time to take it higher.

Nothing new for CNY, as usual, MJ MJ MJ and lost lost lost. Is like first round won then lost then won but overall lost and everytime when I am in the making of 5tai with super chio tiles right at the beginning, some one is faster than me. It went on for few days until today I guai guai went to watch Love Matter instead of MJ-ing. Over the week, I watched Underworld and Inkheart, and frankly speaking, none is worth watching and worth recommending. Boring and Yawn.A boring CNY indeed with no bak gua to eat and shrinking ang pow. 😦

Wonderful Weekend

Blur-ness hit me again on Fri. Was supposed to meet Leona for some german beers and pork knuckles and since I reached earlier, I went to look for the place but damn it, I walked around the building in circles and I just couldn’t find and best still, the security guards don’t even know lor and at this instance, I was right outside the main door cursing and cwhen I so happen to catch a glance of the shopping centre name- UE SQUARE and I was like FUCK!!!! I suppose to go UNITED SQUARE, whahahha!!!!! Damn blur can….Drove down to united sq and the traffic was like crazy can on a Fri evening, all the efforts just to eat pork knuckles and German beers.

The traffic is just horrible la, every where and every corners, no parking lots lor. We wanted to go Clarke Quay but NO LOTS.. Ended up at Jewel Box, even Mt.Faber also no lots…. horrible la…. Our time were spent in the car more than sitting down la…

Oh ya, I mustttttttt recommend this movie, Ip-Man, Ytd I was down at downtown east (also no lot and wait damn fucking long) to catch the preview, i gave it 5 popcorns rating.

“The movie is adapted from the life story of Ip Man, the grand master of the Wing Chun style of Kung Fu and Sifu (master) of legendary Kung Fu superstar Bruce Lee.”

So this year Xmas eve settled, as usual, BBQ again, same old style for the past 2 yrs with great company, good food and champagne and a peaceful nite away from rubbing shoulders at Orchard.

Good news is that we will be landing immediately.Bad news is we’re crash landing.

Everyone is home on a Sat nite!!!!!!!!!! Been partying too much over the past few days that now everyone is resting. Was watching Madagascar 2 at downtown east and I fell asleep halfway through, oppss…. still sore and tired after partying hard at Phuture last nite, anyway it was a great nite, we just get loose and danced the nite away 🙂 and Madagascar was awesome, it was so funny although I doze off for a few mins.

Was calling everyone at 10+ when the movie ended, but seriously, they are all nua-ing at home, so we ended up at Cabana for a quick drink. The drinks at Cabana are fucking exp tonight, more that $400 + cos we parked at handicapped lot and was debating whether to wait or just parked, and I gave my assurance that nothing will happened and whaha..tata… one big white piece of paper on the wiper, scare other ple duno we are being summoned lor, $400!!!!!! OUCH!!!!! I seriously need to stop DRINKING and being a COUCH POTATO cos is doing serious damage to my weight, fuck then I can stay at home n sulk on dec 13rd when everyone is having a fun time at ZoukOut.

Time jus flies lor, it was this time last yr that I was in Melb, and having a fucking great time and so happened when I was missing them, they MSN me, I was like counting down to the days when they are back next month n shall go GATHER jus in time for the festive season but sad to say, is not like in Melb anymore 😦

男人

女人啊女人，

总以为只要对男人好，

做牛做马，

一切都是值得。

更傻的是，

他们认为如果男人离开她们，

是他们的损失。

可是啊，

他们还是离开了你们，

借口是你们太好了，

他们受不起这个压力。

So, no matter how you fucking well you treat them, they still have excuses to leave you. All the lies creating a beautiful story of how 他爱上你的好是你的幸福, 他爱上你的不好是奢侈的幸福 are craps.

All those talka about monogamy!

On a lighter note, The Dark Knight was awesome, too bad Health Ledger wasn’t around anymore to see his award winning show and the way Joker keep licking his tongue is gross.

Holy Cow!!

No entries cause I was too busy becoming a facebook addict shifting between loo and bed after a dinner at Sakae Sushi. Horrible can i tell you!!! Mild food poisoning, I realise it is also tiring to just poo and sleep for 4 consecutive days.

After a whole week of rushing assignments, meeting clients and losing few deals (which mean lotsa of money), I am on e verge to collapse, and so I find my joy in facebook happily poking ple. HEH!!!

Go watch Chuck and Larry, is hilarious, A MUST WATCH!!

15 – 27 Nov to Melb. Oct will be gone in a breeze with all the exams, mugging.

Rachel Babe got me a Coach coin purse from US. Thanks girl, meeting her this Fri for a drink.

Outdated photos last Wed at Butter Factory & Dbl O.

Die Hard 4

No need say more, go watch DIE HARD 4.0.

Awesome!!!

Bruce Willis so shuai lor!!!!

Am finally back home after lazing around at boy’s house for the past few days.

EAT

SLEEP

EAT

SLEEP

That’s what i did. SHYT!!!!

Tml bbq at elv’s hse, together with boozes and mahjong… Wee Woo Wee….

Fly lay is mahjong and clubbing night.

Transformers

Transformers was all great, had no intention to catch this ‘boy’ kind of movie but peeps around me are giving me the thumbs up, and true enough, the best show of the month, it was fantastic especially when they all change into robots and i lubssssssss bumblebee.

Fri night, i was chilling out at orchard with Ning, with the drizzles, the Fri crowd and on top of the GST offset, it was “mountain people mountain sea”. Oh ya, i blew my GST money on topshop shopping. While waiting for the guys, 2 of us just laze around at HK cafe, forcing down the noodles and enormous mango ice and couldn’t think of what to do?

Mahjong?

Cafe del mar?

Ktv-ing?

Club?

Finally after 1hr of indecisiveness, it was to finish the remaining chivas at Shin at Boat Quay.

Now the problem is that i really hate Boat Quay,  apart from Harry’s, Macs and lunching at the restaurants. To make matters worse, my friend “childhood friend” so happened to be there that night. He was drunk, was practically lying around and showed me his sick face when he lost to me five-ten in a row. OK, to make story short, we were eating after that when he just flipped the chilli saucer, my sweet-no temper gf just slided her bowl of ban mian and threw the chopsticks at him and walked off, i tell you it was super hilarious. I turned from talking to him nicely, to shouting to scolding, (no, 5 glasses of diluted Chivas green tea make no effects in me yet) i don’t even care whether people in the coffee shop were looking at us, cause he was just a jerk. Can you imagine, when my friend (also his friend) sided me and asked him to go home, know what he say?

“Let’s us not be friends anymore, you betray me and our more than 10years of friendship over a girl!!!” CHILDISH RIGHT???? or either he is totally insane.

Luckily he is going back to states, ( really disgrace us Singaporeans when he behave in such manner and perceive a bad misconception to the Americans).

Phew~~~

Supper-ing  with the gangs later on.

1 more down in our group. Bye Singapore Bye us Hello Australia !!!

BOO!!!!!

Ci Qing

After the slow 94minutes on the latest Rainie Yang movie, I think it’s crap. But after some Google-ing, it seems that it had won some awards and the overall rating was good.

Oh mine, maybe it wasn’t my kind of show after all, just 1 sentence of vulgarities, it was rated R21 but basically there wasn’t any intimacy at all except for some kissing, and i was like SO??!!! What’s the big deal here? Tsk Tsk……

I still stick back to my Texas Chainsaw, Saw, hostel, oh ya hostel 2 is here…I am waiting..

Tml WED??!!! Party time, shall check out gotham penthouse…..